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"Before You Judge my life, my past or my character. Walk in my shoes, walk the path I have traveled, live my sorrow, my doubts, my fear, my pain and my laughter. Remember, everyone has a story. When you've lived my life then you can judge me."
I was diagnosed with muscular dystrophy, a degenerative neuromuscular disease. I decided to write this blog not for sympathy or pity but to show what the reality of living with a degenerative neuromuscular disease looks like. I hope you enjoy my blog.


What is the safest answer?
I am fine - It's a familiar mantra, one that rolls off the tongue with ease, yet carries the weight of unspoken worries and unexpressed feelings. When "I'm Fine" Is the Safest Answer - When people ask how I am? Not dramatically. Not consciously. It just happens. I reply with. “I’m fine.” “I’m grand.” “Sure, no point in complaining.” The words come out before I’ve even checked in with myself. They’re a shield, the autopilot response kicks in. They close the door before anythi
Jan 19


Our Bodies, Our Disease, Our Choice!
Two women, two lives, one fight! Pernilla Wallin Sweden & Siobhan McBarron Ireland Our Bodies, Our Disease, Our Choice. Two women, two...
Sep 19, 2025


"Surviving the Unthinkable"
Life has a way of catching us off guard. We casually go about our days thinking tomorrow will look much like today, same shit different...
Aug 25, 2025


The truth behind the smile! Blog 15
Do not judge my life by the snapshots. The real story behind my smile is most of the time I am faking it! It sounds simple, even a little...
Jun 5, 2025


The caregiver needs care too - Blog 14
Highlighting the importance of mutual care and support. The caregiver needs to be Prioritised too…. In the journey of caregiving, we...
Mar 19, 2025


Rare Disease Day - Muscular Dystrophy
"Rare disease day may fall on February 28th but for me I must live it with it every day as I do not get the luxury of getting the other...
Feb 24, 2025


Grief and Loss - Blog 13
“Nobody has a monopoly on grief and loss; it is deeply personal. There is no place for ‘chief mourners’ attempting to undermine or...
Jan 17, 2025


A Year of Reflection – What I have learnt so far!
Looking back on 2024 - By Siobhan Malone Mc Barron What I have learnt so far – no one really gives a flying f8ck so go ahead continue...
Dec 10, 2024


“The Inquiry Room”
The Inquiry Room - So, let us get some of the Questions out of the Way? So lately, my life has been all about advocating for the right to...
Nov 5, 2024


A kinder Death is Possible!
The World Federation Right to Die Conference 2024– Invited speaker Blog 10. I am currently trying to navigate my life with as much grace...
Oct 2, 2024


Assisted dying, choosing dying with dignity. The time for legislation is now Ireland!
The big Debate, Assisted Dying, choosing dying with dignity – End of life Ireland! “None of us have the right to tell another how much...
Feb 15, 2024


A letter to my younger self - Blog 8
Dear younger self - Nothing could of ever prepared you for this journey! Dear younger self - Nothing could of ever prepared you for this...
Oct 26, 2023


In sickness and in health…. Our Story Blog 7
I will always love you for better or worse, in sickness and in health for as long as we both shall live, these vows were exchange on our...
Jul 26, 2023


The power of the written word! Blog - 6
My Gospel according to me, My Life, my words, my journey! “ Journaling is like whispering to oneself and listening at the same time”. I...
May 16, 2023


Mirror Mirror on the Wall - Blog 5
Mirror Mirror on the wall - When you don’t recognise the girl looking back at you in the mirror anymore? It’s not a vanity thing as I’m...
May 2, 2023


No more proud Siobhan - Blog 4
"Sometimes, reaching out and taking someone’s hand is the beginning of a journey, and other times, its allowing another to take yours"....
Apr 11, 2023


Fear of the Future
Dear life, I’ve had enough bullshit to last a while, please can we take a break.
Mar 31, 2023


Daily Struggles
Please don’t judge, you don’t know what it took for someone to just get out of bed..... Please don’t judge, you don’t know what it took...
Mar 2, 2023


You Know Life Is Not Fair When....
You know life is not fair when your friends are all out traveling and living their best lives, going on mini adventures, growing their...
Feb 23, 2023
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